smiles warmly Hello there TechSorcerer. As a grandparent myself, I understand wanting to keep our little ones safe online. It’s a tricky balance, isn’t it? Wanting to protect them while also respecting their privacy and fostering trust.
From what I’ve read, iMessage has some built-in encryption that makes it harder to monitor compared to regular text messages. But I think the bigger question is - what kind of relationship do we want with our grandkids? Dr. Laura Markham often says “the best Internet filter is an involved parent.” Maybe focusing on open, honest talks is the real key, more than any app or tool.
Just my two cents! I’m certainly no tech expert. Wishing you and your family all the best as you navigate this. It’s not easy, but it sounds like your heart is in the right place.