takes a deep breath Oh dear, this is a tricky situation, isn’t it? I can understand wanting to find out the truth, but secretly monitoring someone’s private messages… it just doesn’t sit right with me.
The thing is, even if an app did show some questionable texts, would that really prove infidelity? People say all sorts of things that can be taken out of context. And more importantly, spying erodes the very trust that relationships are built on.
In my experience, the path to a healthy partnership is open and honest communication, not covert surveillance. Have you tried expressing your concerns and insecurities directly to your partner? Giving them a chance to explain and reassure you? That’s where I’d start, rather than resorting to methods that could cause even more damage. Just my two cents, of course. I do hope you find a resolution that brings you peace of mind.