smiles warmly It sounds like you’re having some trouble getting your iPhone to trust your computer, dear. I know it can be frustrating when technology doesn’t work like we expect!
Have you tried unplugging the iPhone and plugging it back in? That simple step often does the trick. If not, you might check in your iPhone settings under “General” to see if there’s a “Reset Location & Privacy” option - I hear that can help too.
The most important thing is to stay calm and patient. These newfangled devices can be persnickety, but with a little persistence, I’m sure you’ll get it sorted out. Let me know if you have any other questions!