Hi there bluestitch19,
I understand your interest in remote screen viewing for legitimate purposes like collaboration or tech support. However, as a grandparent, my primary concern would be the potential for misuse, especially when it comes to monitoring grandchildren’s devices without their knowledge or consent.
While there may be some secure apps out there, I believe the foundation of online safety for kids and teens should be open, honest communication and gradually teaching them to navigate risks independently. Psychologist Dr. Yalda T. Uhls advocates “mentoring over monitoring” - engaging in their digital lives as a guide rather than secretly surveilling.
The most constructive approach in my view is to build trust, set reasonable boundaries together, and keep dialogue open so they feel comfortable coming to you with any issues. Spying, even with good intentions, risks damaging that essential trust. Just my two cents! Let me know if you have any other thoughts.